Tante Erika and
Tante Frieda (sisters of my grandfather, so my great aunts) picked me up at the
train station in Leoben, and then we drove to Eisenerz. Eisenerz is a small-ish
town about 30 minutes drive from the station Leoben, which is in the heart of
Austria. It was comforting to have a ride home, and I was bombarded instantly
with several questions about my whereabouts and my wellbeing and of course, my
lost backpack. Number one most important thing to note is that my relatives
don’t speak English. I’m speaking and thinking now in German, and even though
they have an Austrian dialect, it’s going quite well and I’m loving being able
to be understood after all this time in Eastern Europe. Ha, it’s amazing how
much comes back to you when you are surrounded by the language, I find myself
rolling words off my tongue that I never even thought I knew…and suddenly
they’re coming out and I’m saying them without thinking. I thought I would have
forgotten a lot, since the last short course in German I did was two years ago,
but surprisingly not. Anywho it’s rather obvious that they are thrilled to have
me here, and I couldn’t be more excited myself. Very welcoming. Very
comforting.
This is what greeted
me on the drive through the Alps to Eisenerz;
That's the town from the mountains |
Eisenerz is the town
where my grandparents, great grandparents, and most relatives grew up and many
still live there. My grandparents (who moved to Australia after the war) speak
so fondly of their hometown, and all the family and friends they still have
there. They are happy and have made a life for themselves in Australia, but I
think in their heart of hearts they must miss it terribly. It’s been 50 years
since they married and moved away, and I’ve only been gone 5 and a half
months…I’m not missing home too much because I know I’ve go back eventually
(ulgh ;), but venturing out into the wide wide world without knowledge of any
return to the place you call home must be hard. And they didn’t speak a word of
English when they came out, so kudos to them for that.
Tante Erika's (newly renovated) house |
Uhh..hello, I'd live here |
Tante Erika showed
me around her beloved town, and man; is my family history here! For example, my
Tante Erika lives now in a house, where generations and generations of Gierers
have lived – since, GET THIS; 1939. 1939!! Almost 80 years of the Gierer clan. My
grandfather was raised there, and then Tante Erika was raised there, and then
her kids…ect ect. Amazing.
A town nestled among snow capped Alps |
The church where my
grandparents were married some 50 years ago is still here, and also where my
great Aunt married. I just waltzed up to that, standing before an old church,
that to someone else is, yeah, nice and pretty, but for me, so relevant to
generations of Gierers before me. Tante Erika told stories of the family
weddings, were new Gierers were created. Yes, there was extreme emphasis placed
on the church and Gierer weddings.
We passed the house
where my great grandmother lived. Still standing. Been there for hundreds of years.
In the mountains, we
walked past the house were my grandfather was
born and raised. The school he attended, some 75 years ago still stands
there, and now my father’s cousin’s children attend it.
This is the kind of
town where everyone either a)knows one another or b) is related. I’m sure of
it. It’s the kind of place where you don’t need to lock your doors at night,
everyone says hello to each other on the street, and the local hospital looks like
this;
(behind the supermarket) |
...and then you get this, just randomly situated before the backdrop... |
The church of many vows |
We went to the
cemetery, again, where generations of my family are buried. Lighting candles
for my ancestors that have passed, I stared at the grave stones for a while.
‘Gierer’ gravestones. It was as if I was seeing my family name for the first
time. And this sounds perhaps silly, but it was almost overwhelming, within a
few hours I felt as if I’d walked through a timeline of my family history;
birthplaces, childhood homes, schools, the trade school where my grandfather
learnt his trade as a mechanic, the church were so many were married, and then
finally, the gravestones of where the deceased lay. And everything was in that
town. Utterly astounding.
I learnt a lot about
where I come from. The Austrian heritage is always something I’ve known, and I
knew of the town, but now I know so much more. It’s amazing – all my roots lie
in this little place, and I feel truly lucky to have been able to visit it and
see the special places, and spending time with the Gierer clan that are still
with us today.
That night, in true
Austria fashion we ate a lot, drank a lot and played cards whilst drinking spirits
till late. Tante Erika, Tante Frieda, Adi, and a grandson from Tante Frieda –
Markus. Markus is 25 years old, not part of the Gierer clan but a grandson of
someone who married into the family. Gotta hand it to the Gierer clan, they are
scheming little foxes. It was promptly slipped into the conversation before he
arrived that he wasn’t seeing anyone currently and was ‘quite handsome’, with a
waggle of the eyebrows from my cheeky Uncle Adi. Whilst the rest of the family sung his praises I simply smiled tightly and sipped my drink. Later though, he
arrived and everyone so conveniently situated
themselves so we were settled quite closely on the couch, and to everyone’s
delight we got on quite well, laughed a lot and had a lot in common. It was
throughout the evening I noticed a few things form the scheming clan; a subtle
bottle of wine that was pushed towards us, the subtle backing away of the clan
as they left us to our conversation, the hushed whispers and raised eyebrows
amongst the ladies, with sneaky glances and excited smiles in our direction. It
was fairly obvious, to both Markus and myself, what the elders were trying to
accomplish, and we had to laugh at their attempted plan to, presumably, make me
the next Gierer to be married off in that famous church, as so many Gierers
were before me. Did I come to stay with Austrian relatives or sign up to
underground dating service? After tonight, I’m not quite sure.
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